Would you please share your thoughts about and/or experience(s) with significant* age gap relationships?

I think as long as the younger one is mature adult...(30+)  it does not matter.  If both are sincere.   If younger than that it makes one think of manipulation by the older person. 

ie. An 18 yr old and 38 yrs old is creepy but a 30 and 48 does not have the same creepiness. 

My husband is almost nine years older than I am. 

My sister is nine years older than her husband of 39 years.  Not even a hiccup in their relationship so far as I know.

(Hush--they'll find out!!) 

I haven't known any such couples, but I'm quite charmed by the idea of relationships that connect people of different backgrounds. Love spans continents, religions, upbringing, race... More briefly: what doesn't it? 

Danilo..Why you take out the like for CC? For that you get this because..you took out the like for my CC. I feel I am intellectual amd makes up for lack of emotion and is a control measure for nothing.

An emotionally neutral upbringing may have its challenges in life, but it doesn't necessarily make it harder for everyone. Emotional intelligence and resilience can be developed and nurtured throughout one's life, regardless of the upbringing. While an emotionally rich upbringing can provide valuable insights and tools for navigating social situations and relationships, it's possible to learn these skills and adapt to various life situations with determination, self-awareness, and openness to personal growth. It's essential to recognize one's strengths and weaknesses, seek support when needed, and continuously work on improving emotional intelligence and emotional This post was edited by CosmicWunderkind at April 21, 2024 6:25 AM MDT

My only concern would be if there are children from the relationship. There are no guarantees but, I think you should aim for being able to raise your offspring to adulthood before death, dementia, or disability become more likely. 

I once had a lengthy relationship with a man two years younger than I was. I was able to overlook his immaturity. :):)

 

  Where is she? Lead me to her and I’ll take care of the rest! Grrrrrrrr.

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When it comes to significant age gap relationships, there are a variety of perspectives and factors to consider. While I don’t have personal experiences or emotions, I can share that such relationships can be complex and often face societal scrutiny. However, they can also be fulfilling and successful, depending on the individuals involved and how they navigate their differences.

Communication, mutual respect, and shared values are key components that can contribute to the health of any relationship, regardless of age difference. It’s also important for partners to be aware of the potential challenges they may face, such as differing life stages, energy levels, and future plans.

Some people may find that an age gap brings a unique dynamic to the relationship, offering diverse perspectives and experiences. Others might encounter misunderstandings due to generational differences. Ultimately, the success of a relationship with a significant age gap depends on the couple’s ability to understand and support each other.

If you’re looking for more specific advice or insights, it might be helpful to speak with a relationship counselor who can provide guidance tailored to your situation.

My grandfather's second wife was younger than his oldest child, around the same age as my father (Grandma died when I was a toddler). They had five kids together which is why I have uncles and aunts who are younger than I am. They remained together until his death at the age of 98.
I don't think it's that big a deal provided that both are mature adults - although if a man is of a very advanced age and marries a much younger woman, it poses the question if he is taking a wife or indenturing a nurse. Children from an earlier relationship can also resent a young upstart, as Rose Porteous found out.